Thanks for pointing this aspect of things out. I know what you are talking about. My father spend aroun 80k of the disability money he received in my name on booze. And nobody of my relatives ever raised this issue. It looked like they didn't even notice. So, the social system was trying to make my situation better, by providing my parents with a considerable sum of money. And all they did, was spend in the way they saw fit. These days, my mother claims she didn't have any say in the matter. What a chicken move. Think twice before you only see the publishable side of a story.