Framing something as "defending" against "critique" creates an interaction that is immediately adversarial, which is not so far distant from judging down-the-nose, IMO. They are words of combat and criticism, and I think we get better outcomes when we find ways to ask a candidate to "discuss strengths and compromises" without that. I don't want any of my candidates to feel like they are on defense against me in a scenario where they know that there is a catastrophic power imbalance and I am able to use literally any reason I want to kick them to the street. People don't think well in that kind of situation.

> last thing I want to sound like is AI!

My suggestion of it signaling AI was somewhat tongue-in-cheek. Humans have been writing inexpertly and injecting cliched fluff since the invention of writing. Communicating with precision is one of the most difficult things that any of us ever do.